Yes, all men.

There are many root causes that impact the issues that many face within the Family Court system (and many other systems throughout the globe). One major root cause is the societal normalization of men’s violence. We call on all men (and those of all genders) to stand with us to demand better of everyone.

“When it comes to addressing men’s violence, it’s the little things that matter. Violence starts somewhere and it’s often wrapped inside the behaviors that are minimized by society every day. Some men start to think their sexist views are supported. — When we don’t focus on these behaviors, when we remain silent about what we see and hear, we give permission for abuse and violence to take place. Silence is the infection that allows violence to continue. You know what? We can all become interrupters who stop the violence.” — Graham Goulden, That Guy, Better Ways to be a Man

Instead of saying “not all men,” say “yes all men” (and those of all genders) can make a difference by speaking up and demanding better of themselves and everyone around them. Violence of any kind should not be tolerated or normalized.

We need to flip the script on a man’s need (and entitlement) to control women and children from being rewarded and perpetuated by individuals, society, and literally all systems — to calling out this disturbing and destructive behavior and calling in more peace. The little things matter. Accountability every step of the way matters. Flip the script towards accountability and peace.

Important note: Normalization of men’s violence is catastrophic for men too — not to mention children, the Earth and society as a whole. We need continued solidarity in our actions to rebuild all of our systems with health, collective care, accountability and love in mind.

Learn more about how you can get involved in rebuilding the Family Court system at www.custody-peace.org.